10 things coaches don’t tell you! Truths exposed!
Forget about those ads that claim weight loss and fitness benefits from taking a pill, drinking a shake, or sitting in front of your TV. It’s not reality. Fitness isn’t always flashy. The toned abs, strong muscles and sculptured physiques you see on Instagram don’t appear overnight. True fitness requires dedication, mindfulness and sustained effort. But when you get off your seat and take the leap, the benefits are unmatchable.
Some coaches want to play you for your money. They don’t care about helping you reach your goals. They won’t tell you about the not-so-flashy parts of fitness training. But these truths are important to know—with knowledge, you’ll be stronger when you face these challenges, and will always come prepared.
1. Growing muscle and staying lean is a long, sustained process. Success doesn’t happen overnight.
You’ve heard about the new year’s curse—where dreamers set a resolution to join a gym, get fit and love their bodies in the new year—but it all falls apart within the first week. As they say, the start of January is always the busiest gym time of the year.
Don’t fall into the same trap. Success doesn’t come from a sudden burst of motivation, a bite of an apple and a few walks on the treadmill. It’s a long, sustained process. Even once you’ve reached your fitness goals, you can’t stop there. If you don’t maintain them, you’ll lose all your hard work.
2. A fitness journey is a marathon, not a sprint. Take your time.
Fitness isn’t about crash dieting or one-off, high-intensity workouts. A simple, sustained fitness regime is better than one hard and fast gym session. It’s about forming lifestyle habits that will stick with you forever.
3. You will face adversity and challenges along the way. Sometimes, hurdles come one after another. Don’t let them stop you.
Sometimes, life gets in the way. Don’t beat yourself up about it. The important thing is to stick to your routine. If you miss a day or two because of life complications, don’t dwell on it. Don’t let it affect your journey.
The next day, get back to the gym and get back into it. It doesn’t have to be your best session. Just showing up is the best thing you can do to keep yourself on track.
4. You might not get it right the first time. Or the second. Or the third.
Starting a fitness regime isn’t easy. There is so much to learn. You’ll wonder if you’re using proper form, if you’re getting the right vitamins, and if you’re training for long enough.
The good thing is, you don’t have to go it alone. Many personal trainers offer custom meal and training plans, updated regularly as you progress. You’ll always have someone by your side to support you through your journey.
5. Not every day is going to be a good one. Some days are harder than others. Sometimes you’ll struggle to just show up at the gym. Don’t beat yourself up—it’s normal.
Everyone has bad days. The difference between an unsuccessful person and a successful one is how they handle them. You could let a bad day get you down and give up—or you could accept it as a normal part of your journey, and push forward.
6. Your family and friends might not agree with your chosen lifestyle. Don’t worry. A lot of the time, this stems from envy.
In many cases, criticism is rooted in feelings of jealousy and inadequacy. Or, it could stem from ignorance. Family and friends who disagree with your lifestyle might just not understand. Take the opportunity to educate other people about your goals. Taking the time to work on your environment is just as important as your goals. Understand why your fitness journey is important to you and take the time to explain this to those close to you. A toxic environment can derail you from your goals very quickly.
7. The right foods aren’t always mouthwatering and delicious. This doesn’t mean you can’t have the things you love.
Let’s face it—a healthy meal can’t compare to a big, greasy burger on the morning after a night out. But think about the pros and cons. A healthy meal can still be delicious and will fuel your body with the vitamins and minerals you need to reach your true potential. A greasy burger might taste amazing, but it will hold you back in the long term.
Consider making burgers at home, or following a guided meal plan. You’ll still be able to enjoy the foods you love while treating your body right.
8. When it comes to training, remember—quality over quantity.
Regular sessions are important, but not if you’re training incorrectly. Remember—ten reps with perfect form is better than 100 reps with improper form. Guided fitness programs can help you learn how to get a quality workout into each session.
9. Nothing is achieved without HARD WORK.
If nothing else, hard work is the key to success. Results require dedication. By working in tandem with a trainer, you’ll learn how to translate your work into achievement.
In all aspects of life, the easy road is never the path to success. It’s a long journey, and a sustained effort, that will lead to real results. Your fitness idols didn’t get there by skipping sessions and cutting corners. They dedicated themselves to self-improvement, and you can too.
10. Many coaches cut corners for fast results. They’re only focused on themselves and their business. When seeking your plan, looking for keywords such as ‘sustainability’, ‘longevity’ and ‘healthy lifestyle.’
Look for the right words when searching for a suitable fitness program. Avoid coaches who make promises of fast results or promote fad diets. Remember, the formula for success is hard work, knowledge and consistency.
If a coach mentions keywords such as ‘sustainability’, ‘longevity’ and ‘healthy lifestyle’, you’ll know they’re serious about helping you achieve your fitness goals realistically.
The above list states some of the challenges and hurdles you’ll face in your fitness journey. But don’t let this stop you. Take it from me—achieving that feeling of strength, health and confidence make it all worth it, 110%.
Road to Aesthetics can work with you to create a unique, tailored plan to help you achieve your fitness goals. Plans are available for men and women of all backgrounds and fitness levels. Start a conversation with me today and get ready for your transformation.







